The hardest, best thing I've ever done

The hardest, best thing I've ever done

When I met my partner, DJ, he wasn’t sure he wanted to have children. I, on the other hand, knew that it was the path for me. 

Before I met him, I was planning to start a family on my own and I told him as much on our first date. How’s that for an awkward first date conversation?! I was sure I would never hear from him again.

Being new to the Boulder area at the time, during the height of COVID, dating apps were a solid way to meet new people, even if it started and ended with a single sushi date, a bold proclamation of where I was headed, and a likely spotlight on mismatched life goals or timelines. I would have been happy to make a new friend, if nothing else.